Help in starting out our new lives...

I am trying to start a new life for all of. I just found out that my 10 year old daughter's closest friend is moving to another city...now she is devistated again...the first move was hard. I was trying to get her a small puppy like a yorkie or some type of toy version puppy but they are so expensive. So if someone out there can help me out and give me a decent deal with one, i would really appreciate it.....thanks for everyone's help....

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When all this happened we decided to get a house built in Indiana. We wanted to move in August of 2006 because that would give the kids enough time to say good bye to their best friends and get them ready to move out of state. Plus my oldest son wanted to graduate from 8th grade because in chicago they have a great big graduation ceramony for them. He also had been in that school since he was in preschool which was the age of 4, so that gave the house builder enough time to build the house also. So this is when we started our new life here in Indiana. So the kids left behind their childhood friends and our friends to start a new live without my husband's family, because my family like my parents and sister live in Texas so i don't have any family up here. So as my husband and I are trying to better our children's lives it has been very hard, new town, new people, new enviroment everything is very different out here, it is still somewhat rural our backyard is a cornfield this is how rural we are. It is a nice little town but it is hard to get use to it, no family like we were use to. Like i said only one of my husband's brothers comes around a couple of times a month but it is not the same. The kids miss all that and to tell you the truth so do we. Don't get me wrong I love our house it is way bigger then we had before but we just can't get use to the town so hopefully by blogging or doing stuff like this i will be able to start a new life......

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So until now the police in Chicago can't capture him. They go to their house and they never open the door. If not my husband's older brother's hide them at their homes. My husband is the youngest of 5 brothers and my husband's older brother believes us but the others don't except for another brother who is a parole officer, he believes my daughter. So when all this happened we decided we had to move far from them. My husband's parents always wanted us to be with them at all times, either for dinner, cookouts, parties or whatever they can come out with. They pretty much controlled us and when i tried stopping that control they all would get mad at me. But they supposedly loved the kids and if i ever took them away or didn't visit them for 3 or more days they would call my husband to tell me to take the kids over there so i had to. There saying was that if they didn't see the kids that they didn't have anything to live for. My daughter told my mother in law what my father in law had did to her, and all my mother in law did was hit my father in law and kept quiet, because she knew that if we were to find out they would never see these kids again. So the last time they seen the kids was May 1, 2005 they haven't seen them since or spoken to them by any means.

Starting a new life...

In 2005, my daughter of age 7 told my husband and I that my husband's father had been touching her inappropriatly if you all know what I mean. Of course I was devistated and my husband was heart broken because he adored his parents. My husband approached his mom and of course she denied in knowing anything and his mom approached her husband the next day and he of course denied it. I took my daughter to the her pediatrician and the doctor said she was torn, which of course i became even more devastated that i lost it in the doctor's office. The doctor of course had to report to the police and family and childrens services and i went along with everything. I took my daughter whereever she needed to go , police invesitigators and distict attorneys interviewing her and me. I felt horrable putting her through all of this but it had to be done so we can get justice and peace for all of us. My husband's parents were always so good to us, when we had financial problems they would help us. When my husband got laid off they would buy us groceries and so on. But this is no excuse for my father in law to do what he did. He never touched my boys, only my daughter, he disgusts me 100%.